Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy

IInternal Family Systems (IFS) therapy is a highly effective, evidence-based therapeutic approach that helps individuals explore and heal the many parts that make up their internal world. According to IFS, each person is composed of different sub-personalities or “parts,” which develop as a result of our unique life experiences and interactions. These parts can reflect various aspects of our personality, such as our “parenting” part, “employee” part, or “organizing” part, and they can also hold more challenging emotions like anger, sadness, or fear.

What are “Parts” in IFS Therapy?

In IFS, every part of you plays a role, even if that role might seem difficult or troubling at times. These parts emerge as coping mechanisms shaped by past experiences. Some parts protect us from pain, while others may carry unresolved emotions or beliefs. It’s important to note that there are “No Bad Parts” in IFS. As Richard Schwartz, the founder of IFS, explains in his book, No Bad Parts, the goal is not to get rid of any parts but to understand them and develop a healthy relationship with each one.

How Does IFS Therapy Work?

IFS therapy is client-centered, meaning that your internal system leads the way. This unique approach allows the pace of therapy to be tailored to your individual needs and comfort level, ensuring a compassionate, non-judgmental space for healing. In IFS, the therapist supports you in connecting with different parts of your internal system, allowing for deeper self-awareness and understanding.

Through this process, many clients experience profound improvements in emotional regulation, self-awareness, relationship dynamics, and overall mental well-being. IFS helps you work through internal conflicts between parts, such as opposing beliefs or emotions, which, if left unresolved, can impede healing and growth.

Benefits of IFS Therapy

IFS therapy has been proven to help with a wide range of mental health concerns, including:

  • Trauma (including physical, emotional, or sexual abuse)
  • Neglect
  • Compulsive behaviors
  • Depression and anxiety
  • Phobias
  • Substance dependency

By helping you better understand your internal system, IFS therapy offers a powerful framework for healing and self-empowerment, guiding you toward more balanced emotional states and healthier life choices.

Meet Clare Pentelow: Your Guide to Healing Through IFS

Clare Pentelow is a compassionate and experienced psychotherapist and social worker with over 10 years of experience in the mental health field. Clare has completed Level 1 training through the IFS Institute, equipping her with the knowledge and skills to support you on your journey toward healing.

With her warm and empathetic approach, Clare creates a safe and nurturing environment where you can explore and understand your parts, work through inner conflicts, and move toward a more harmonious and fulfilled life.e.